“I asked my boyfriend to fight for me, and he refused. Does that mean he doesn’t really care that much about me? Was he being a coward, or am I judging him too harshly?” (Quora #1)

Original here.

Answered on: Tuesday, August 11, 2015
My Answer: He doesn’t deserve you, that’s for sure.

… but not in the way you think.

Views till now: 80
Upvotes till now: 2
Number of other answers to the question: 100+
Number of comments on my answer: 0

About this question and answer: Needless to say, the overwhelming body of opinion among the respondents was that the young woman was immature, irresponsible and also pretty stupid to try to get her boyfriend into fights over her. So don’t try this at home, ladies.

This is part of a series which saves my answers on Quora here, so that I can get to keep them in the event of Quora going down, and everything changes eventually on-line. The answers given by me are of very varied detail, some very short, some much more detailed, some simply backing up another, better answer. Sometimes they are the only answer to a question, sometimes they are one of hundreds of answers. Sometimes they are in accord with what other answers say, smetimes they take a different track. Sometimes they are meant seriously, and at other times they are mere sarcasm, as you will see.

In each case you can follow the links, as long as Quora is up, and we’ll see how long that is, to get more detail and probably find much better answers than mine, or answer yourself.

Nevertheless, I encourage you to kick off the discussion right here on Huliganov.TV, in the hope that this will help us develop our own community. Enjoy.

About David J. James

56 year old UK origin Chartered Accountant and business consultant who loves languages, literature, history, religion, politics, internet, vlogging and blogging and lively written or spoken discussion, plays backgammon and a few other board games. Walks and listens to Audible for hours a day usually, and avoids use of the car. Conservative Christian, married to an angel with advanced Multiple Sclerosis. We have three kids, two of them autistic, and we live in Warsaw, Poland. On the board of the main British-Polish charity Fundacja Sue Ryder in Poland, and involved in the Vocational Autistic School of "Nie Z Tej Bajki" in Warsaw. Member of Gideons International. Serves on two committees of the Chamber of Auditors in Poland, and on several Boards and Supervisory Boards. Has own consultancy called Quoracy.com delivering business governance and audit/valuation solutions as well as mentoring. Author of the GoldList Method for systematic optimal use of the long-term memory in learning.

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